Want to put yourself out there? Want to be more outgoing? Well I’m glad because i can help you! I’m going to tell you that there are only 3 steps to being confident! Yes only 3! Now let’s get started!

Step 1- Be Yourself

The first step is to be yourself. If you are hearing this often then you should probably listen. If you want to be more confident than do what you do most…BE YOURSELF! You shouldn’t be afraid of showing who you really are in front of others. You should be happy with yourself. Be the funny outgoing person that you are. Who cares if you do something embarrassing in public. If you don’t embarrass yourself or your friends then you aren’t confident. So give it a try. Go somewhere public and do some funny stuff. If you don’t do funny stuff then how are you living life. Living life as a teenager should be fun and outgoing. Do spontaneous things with your friends and let go a little. You only live once.

Step 2- Don’t let anyone bring down your self esteem

The second step is to not let anyone bring you down mentally. Remember that you control your feelings(angry/upset/negative/etc.) about things not other people. You want to value your emotions, thoughts, and actions. By doing this, the less someone else can control and manipulate you to feel a certain way. Also keep in mind that the older you get the less you are worried about others say/do/ or think. Don’t let anyone tell you different.

Step 3- Be the best person you can be

Last but not least, the final step to being confident is to be the best person you can be.
At Least you are trying and giving some amount of time into your day to be the best person you want to be. Being confident about yourself is amazing. It doesn’t limit you from anything. It makes you want to be young, wild, and free. That’s why we are teenagers. You want to explore the unknown. So go somewhere and be happy doing whatever you are doing. Continue to be the person you are or want to become. You can be something better if you want to, all you have to do is put your mind to and work for it. Everyone is unique in their own way, there’s not exactly an explanation for becoming a better person, it’s really up to you to decide how and what you want to become.

Published By: Anastasia B.